Committment.. or not?

(copied from MD)
posted 2/1/2006 7:43:20 PM

If you've been keeping up I have talked about the issue of sex on the first date. And may I say that I did get a few responses on those blogs. Not as many as I had expected, don't get me wrong, I am not complaining either way. It's a touchy subject for most people. But this issue has brought along other issues that could be explored. Let's say you meet someone, you have a great time with them and one thing leads to another and you have "relations" maybe on the first date, maybe the second..... at this point that's not the issue. The issue remains, are you now in a committed relationship? Let's ponder this for a moment or two and maybe we will find the answer. I wish someone would help me out here! lol I wonder about this because maybe it has happened to someone else and they have a way of dealing with it and understanding the "bs" that goes along with dating. Unless you say you are exclusive shouldn't you be allowed to see anyone you want and if that moves into the "relations" area shouldn't that be your right as well? I am not suggesting jumping from bed to bed is a safe or supported activity BUT I am saying that everyone has the right to do what they wish in a relationship unless it's specified just exactly where you stand with one another.. yes? no? maybe so? So, if the RIGHT person reads this understand that I am absolutely, so totally "un-confused" and would be very happy with a committed relationship with you if the distance could be overcome and that is what you want too.